![]() ![]() And then she decided she was done cooking and would order out every day. However, I feel my wife has been unfair with how she's handled the money. Living in North Dakota, the approximately $252,000 she gets is more than enough to live well. The rest of her inheritance is locked in a trust that pays out $15k a month. She rented out the house by bedroom to students, and gets $6,000 a month when it's all said and done. ![]() It's in one of the most HCOL areas near a private college where nearly all the students come from East Coast private schools. Her dad died and now she inherited a 5 bedroom mortgage free house in another state. But she held the job to show her dad she was responsible. She hated her job because there was no growth and it was boring. My wife worked as an accounts payable clerk making $32k. It gets old driving around dealing with tenants who take their frustration out on me because my boss decided to cut corners. We live in North Dakota and I make $52k a year doing a property management job I hate. She made it very clear that the money she inherited was supposed to go to her dad's bloodline, also known as her and our children (13F, 9M). My (35M) wife (33F) inherited a large chunk of her late father's sizable estate. I don’t know what they’re for, but there’s 4 of them totaling 55kĪITA for threatening to quit my job because my wife just randomly quit hers? We did discuss them a year ago when I first proposed, and she told me she was debt-free. Lots of questions asking why we didn’t discuss finances before getting married. I’m gonna break the news and I’ll keep you guys posted! Thanks for the help! Thanks to everyone for giving me advise on this!Īlright, I’m not going to file with the court. Broke a lot of things on the way out, and was telling me things like she plans to sue me for wasting her time and pain and suffering □ it’s shitty, but onto the next I guess. News was broken, she left in a firestorm. Admittedly, I was incredibly pissed when she told me last night and we haven’t talked since then. How should I approach this? We’re filing with the court later today if that makes a difference. Not gonna lie, had I known this I wouldn’t have even thought marriage to be an option. She’s pressing really hard that it’s “our” money now and she’s expecting me to withdraw everything and put it towards her debt, per Dave Ramsey who she’s been apparently following for years. I have 120k in investments and 30k in savings. I just got married yesterday, and last night my wife drops the bomb on me that she has $160k in debt between school, judgements, cars and credit cards. Maybe count that as a blessing and do so.Throw away for hopefully obvious reasons. You're lucky in that you actually can find the actual parts to do it CORRECTLY. If I was standing right there doing it with you, I know what to look for if it hasn't gone right and I know how to remedy. Or you can simply do it right the first time and take the safer more effective road. It's YOUR grill, it's YOUR safety (not mine or anyone else's here), and if you feel you'd rather risk your grill and safety to save a couple $$$. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a fully licensed fitter train them in all this either as I did after my first failed attempt. I DO know however that the the principals of gas technology don't change nor does the principal of safety. So you can "cheap out", take a chance you have a manifold with valves that will work and IDK you may have a 50/50 chance? I don't know enough about the newer generation of Weber grills to know what to tell you to look for. Because the sudden rush of O2 and change in air movement may cause the gas buildup to ignite suddenly. Gas is slowly building up under the hood and you go to check your creation and "whoompf" you have a fireball in your face. It is! Now you may have all 3 burners on, one or 2 may be struggling or not lit at all. Because IF you have that result, and are unknowingly using it like that, just because the flame may be out on a burner or two does NOT mean gas is not flowing. This is where an amateur conversion can go VERY sideways. Or you might have one after that "attempt" in which your low/medium flame settings are not consistent enough to "hold" a flame without a "flameout". So sadly you MIGHT have one where by a simple orifice change out, proper supply is given and voila you have a safe and useful grill that works. Weber (unlike other makers) seems to be all over the map when it comes to their manifold assemblies. But, pretty much it's what you will get from most any of us. I know given that you dropped off that PM you started what you got from me information wise was not what you wanted. ![]()
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